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Proven Dating Advice For Guys

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The best dating advice can be summed up as follows: meet women often, be positive and funny, create attraction, close the deal, keep things exciting and do not be a wuss. You need to have some faith because this dating advice has been proven to work. Below, this proven dating advice for guys is expanded upon in greater detail.

Meet women every day.Think about some places that you go all the time: the supermarket, coffee shop, takeout place, gym, etc. Are these all places where you are likely to find women? That is a good start. Since you know these places so well, it should not be difficult to find common topics to talk about.

Be positive in your body language. If you saw a woman walking down the street with her eyes toward the ground, frown on her face and hands in her pockets, would you want to talk to her? Hold your head up and smile more. Women are attracted to that.

The next step is to observe what is happening around you. Maybe you are at the grocery store and the line is really slow. You and the woman behind you make small talk about this and suddenly you are in an actual conversation with her. Talk to every woman that gives you eye contact. The more you give, the more you get.

Close the deal.

You and an attractive woman are having a good conversation. Before you close the deal, you need to create attraction. Start by teasing her. If she has a big purse, say, “Are you carrying a small child in there?” Let her ask all of the questions and have some witty responses ready. Inevitably, she will ask you, “What do you do for work?” Say something funny like, “It’s interesting that you should ask that. I’m an underwear model.”

Do not try to get kisses, dates or sex. Just get her phone number and move on. Make sure that you are the one that closes the conversation. Wait a day or two and call her (if you decide to text her, read this first). Do not let the phone conversation go on too long. Ask how she is doing and quickly make plans for a first date.

Do not pay for everything.

If you make plans for the common first date of dinner and a movie, then you are setting yourself up to fail. You will feel obligated to pay for everything and set up an unconscious expectation from your date. Eventually, she will decide that you are a wuss and become uninterested. Tell her that there is an art show that you have been meaning to check out, ask her to accompany you on your errands or see if she is interested in joining you at a party that your friend is having.

Avoid boring conversation.

When you are on a first date, it is easy to talk about about neutral topics like work history, favorite colors and where you grew up. One of the most boring questions you can ask a girl is, “What do you do for a living?” You can still find out what you want to know by adding a little flair to the conversation. Instead, say, “I’ll bet you’re a teacher.” There is a good chance that she is not a teacher but this approach will definitely engage your date.

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Always have a few entertaining stories in your back pocket. Maybe you have a story about how your dad accidentally got into someone elses car. Do not just say, “One day, I dropped my dad off at the post office. I was waiting for him to come out when I noticed someone with my same exact car parked right in front of me. Well, my dad came out and got into the wrong car. It was so crazy.” Add excitement to the story. Talk about how you were on vacation, the looks on everyone elses faces, what the driver said to your father and the dressed-up poodle in the driver’s backseat.

Finally, avoid the following topics: religion, politics, the weather, bad past relationships and anything else that is negative. If you follow this dating advice, you will easily get more dates.

Best Ways To Get A Date

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Ultimately, the goal all single men on the prowl have is to arrange a one-on-one meeting with a woman, what is often called a date. (There may be other goals during or after that one-on-one meeting that will be covered in other articles, but let’s just address getting that first date. First things first, right.

Best Ways to Get a Date Step #1

1. Get off your butt. Sitting at home on the couch, eating potato chips and watching cop show reruns is about the furthest thing away from learning how to attract girls, let alone getting a date. Unless you put yourself out there and make some effort, you probably have zero chance of meeting a girl. So, the first step is to get out of the house as often as possible. Here are ways to do that:
* Increase your circle of friends so you have an active social life
* Join a club that allows you to pursue your interests
* Visit places where people like to frequent, such a bookstores, museums, and sports events.
* Join a sports team, such as volleyball. Or if you were not athletic, something such as joining a chess team would work equally as well.

These are just a few ideas to get you out there.

Best Ways to Get a Date Step #2

Cute Girl On Date2. The second step in getting a date is to actually walk up to a girl, what we like to call approaching a girl. So, say you are at the bookstore and see a really interesting girl in the horticulture section. Your next step is going to e approaching her.

Before you approach a girl, you should know a little bit about body language. If she has very closed off body language, you might want to choose another woman to approach.

If you are at a party and you see a woman across the room you are interested in approaching, you can feel out her openness by making eye contact and even smiling at her. If she gives you a dirty look at looks away, steer clear. But if she makes brief eye contact, that make be a good sign. If she gives you a little smile, that is a green light to approach. Don’t’ tarry or you may lose your chance.

Best Ways to Get a Date Step #3

3. Strike up a conversation. Once you get the green light, don’t waste anytime in walking up to her. A lot of guys get caught up in how to be super entertaining at this point, but that isn’t always necessary. Sometimes the most effective approach is a simple hello.

It does help if you have practiced your conversational skills with others so you aren’t completely tongue-tied. But remember, even if you are naturally shy, give it a shot. Many women think that a guy who is a bit shy is cute.

Best Ways to Get a Date Step #4

4. Get her phone number.

I usually like the most direct and simplest approach to do this. I’ve already established the groundwork, by saying (shortly after I’ve approached her) that I can only stick around for a few minutes because my friends and I are leaving.

Then after a few minutes of conversation, I say, “Give me your phone. I’d like to continue this conversation at a later time.”

Put your number in her phone. Test it out by calling your cell and then say goodbye.

Best Ways to Get a Date Step #5

5. Call her about two days later and arrange a meeting.
Voila. Simple.